Taking the Risk of Friendship

One thing that has really helped my faith grow is realizing that while Jesus spent 30 years on earth in anonymity, we do know He understands our needs, struggles, and temptations. As Hebrews 4:15 (AMP) says:

“For we do not have a High Priest who is unable to sympathize and understand our weaknesses and temptations, but one who has been tempted [knowing exactly how it feels to be human] in every respect as we are, yet without [committing any] sin.”

When He began his ministry at age 30, He chose twelve disciples as his “A Team”. Of these He invested deeply in His “inner circle”—Peter, James, and John. He intentionally chose these men, walked alongside them, and taught them by word and deed how to live a powerful life impacting others. I picture Jesus’ walking with them, speaking earnestly to them, and praying with and for them. While no one can know for sure… I can imagine the wonderful thought of Jesus walking next to Peter and putting his arm around him and asking, “Peter, what’s going on? How are you really doing?”

It is no secret that men have few close friends. (I know this is true for me since we moved a lot.) But this is a new year, and anything can change! So, men, my challenge to you is, who will you make your inner circle this year? Who will you intentionally invite to be real with you? Who will you model vulnerability and humility by saying “I need a friend” or “How about grabbing lunch next week?” As Linda’s mom told her decades ago, “To have a friend you must be a friend.”

While I know it’s scary–the reward will be well worth the risk!