Top 20 Tips for “Your Refreshed Marriage” #16-20

Tom confessed to his wife, “Honey, I’ll be honest. I’ve really been scared lately.”

Emily looked up surprised at her husband’s admission. “Really?” she said. “What are you scared about?”

“The company is being bought out,” Tom shared. “They’re threatening a lot of layoffs. I’m not sure I won’t be one of them.”

Emily’s face softened. “Tell me more. Let’s talk about it.”

If you missed “Top 20 Tips to Your Refreshed Life” #1-15 check them out at www.yourrefreshedlife.com. Here are #16-20:

16. Allow Yourself to be Vulnerable
“Author, Brene’ Brown said, ‘What makes you vulnerable makes you beautiful,’” writes marriage coaches, Johnny and Lara Fernandez. “Opening your heart and sharing your tender places with your spouse creates real intimacy and connection. Always be willing to share your true, deep, scary feelings. This creates a bond that will last. And ladies, please know that his vulnerability may look different than yours. That’s OK.”

17. Give Each Other Space
Reen and I walk together every morning before breakfast. Sometimes we talk. Sometimes we simply enjoy the pleasure of quiet companionship. These are special times for me since my love language is time.
But other times Reen wants to walk alone. It helps him sort out problems or just ‘think.’ I don’t take this as a rejection or as anything but his need for space. We all need space sometimes. It’s a good thing.

18. Practice Forgiveness
Forgiveness is probably the best medicine for marriage. We are all human, imperfect, and make mistakes. To expect otherwise is to set yourself up for disappointment and defeat. Several couples who had been married for more than 50 years shared their secret to a lasting marriage…the willingness to forgive. Practice forgiveness for your partner’s mistakes and for your own. Compromise and forgiveness both hold keys to a truly happy marriage.

19. Couples Who Pray Together, Stay Together
In the realm of relationships, the old adage proves true. Statistics prove that couples who pray together are 47% less likely to divorce. Studies have shown that couples who pray together aloud have increased intimacy in all areas.

20. Celebrate Successes
Is there anything more wonderful than succeeding at something you’ve prayed about together or worked very hard to achieve? Celebrate the large and small successes of life together. You are creating positive memories that will last a lifetime!

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